Good Man Me Pleeeaaassseee!!

Does anyone ever get tired of looking on social media seeing all the happy couples and engagements? UGH!! I do lol. Don’t get me wrong, I love the idea of love and I love to see women happily in love but I often ask myself…when will that love find me? Every other day I found myself sitting and trying to pick through why I am single, or trying to justify the reason why I am not in a relationship but truth be told, am I really ready? Who would want a woman with two children, no place of her own yet,  and no business to call her own? Ha! A good man that’s who! Ladies, a great life coach Titania once challenged me to dig deep and learn how not to look at all of what we feel is wrong in our lives, but look at what we have already accomplished and the accomplishments to come. We need to be more confident within ourselves. I know, I know…it can be a little difficult to keep sight of that confidence  and hope of good men still existing since we are living in the generation of “Badd B***hes” and “Instagram Models” and men looking over the natural beauty, but I am so passionate in believing that “The Good Man” is out there for each and every single one of us. You are beautiful just the way you are! Do not down play your brilliant mind, curvaceous body, or nature hair for a guy that is not even worthy of the strong woman that you are. Now that you have read my pep talk, it is time for you to shout out with me…God, Good Man Me Pleeeeaaaasssseeee!! LOL

See, don’t you feel better?? I know that I do!

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Heyyy Lover's! My name is Alania. I am originally from the westside of Chicago but currently reside in the Atlanta area. I am a devoted mother of two beautiful little girl's and I enjoy every moment of motherhood. As a young, vibrant, black, and brilliant young woman I encourage to inspire. My blogs are validations of my heart and I share with you because you are family! I ask that you bare with me as I figure out this road to greatness. Like-Comment-Share Enjoy!

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