7 Day Blog Challenge-Day 2: Top 5 Things That Grinds my Gears

“Oh How I Hate It”

Have you ever had a list of things that you just overly hated or that irritated your soul to the point where you just wanted to scream? I think that we all have! It was really challenging to come up with just 5 pet peeves because I have so many (Lord bless me) lol but I narrowed my list down and here are my top 5 things that I can absolutely live without…like literally lol!

1.Turning without a signal light

For anyone that knows me, you pretty much know that I can have a little bit of “road rage”. I feel like it is not that hard to just simply put on a signal light when you are about to make a turn. When you fail to use your signal light it can cause all types of issues such as accidents and me being ready to blow my horn while following you for about a mile lol. Please use your signal light!

2.People who say “ew” to the food I’m eating

When I am eating a certain food it is for my liking only. I do not care about opinions or sidebar conversations as it concerns MY food because it is MY food. I wouldn’t be eating it if I didn’t like it. When someone says ew to my food, I pick up my food with my utensil and eat it in their face with such delight and grace. I then smack my lips, roll my eyes and say “yummmm”! lol

3.When you let a car get in front of you and they don’t wave thank you

Like hold on! You mean to tell me I just let the good Lord use me to get me into good spirits to let you in front of me and your not gonna wave thank you? Oh no! First of all, I really just wanted to act like I didn’t see you and let you wait until this long line of cars pass before you come out but I was being my best self. Now, when I see them at the light I have on my “next time I’m not going to be so nice” face and say to them “even though you can’t hear me because my windows are up, you could’ve said thank you!”

4.A person who complains everyday but does nothing to fix the problem

This kind of person really irritates me. They always want you to throw them a pity party or always wants to complain about what’s going wrong in their life but is not doing much to turn the situation around. Now, I’m not saying that complaining is super bad because everyone complains sometime but when the only thing you know how to do when you wake up in the morning is complain and speak negativity; that is when it becomes dreadful and I no longer care about your situation. Sound harsh? Maybe but I try to practice positivism in my life and negative energy has a way of rubbing off on you leaving you with negative thoughts. Not today Satan!

5.People with fake, lying, disloyal characteristics

The way my life and personality set up, I just do not have time to tolerate or entertain this type of person. In my opinion life is too short to carry on with people who celebrate your success in public but pray for your failure in private. I would rather you stop talking to me and hate me in my face then for you to pretend that everything is fine but talk about me behind my back. I have so much respect for a loud hater than a quiet one because no matter how the person is set up, my prayer works for both!

So now you know some of the the things that “Grinds My Gears”. I’m just going to keep praying and hope that my patience gets better!





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Heyyy Lover's! My name is Alania. I am originally from the westside of Chicago but currently reside in the Atlanta area. I am a devoted mother of two beautiful little girl's and I enjoy every moment of motherhood. As a young, vibrant, black, and brilliant young woman I encourage to inspire. My blogs are validations of my heart and I share with you because you are family! I ask that you bare with me as I figure out this road to greatness. Like-Comment-Share Enjoy!

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